Why the blame, shame, condemn, and make feel bad game, has a density to its energy signature, and creates a constrictive energy where being more mindful, kind, compassionate and understanding, creates a expansive energy with an openness for further expansion.
When someone offers an idea or has behaviors that you may perceive as unacceptable and their ideals do not match our point of perception, we can simply be like, hmm "interesting point of perception." and "they may choose this experience, and that is okay, I can choose experiences that feel more aligned for me. We can then choose to Overlook the differences and choose to focus on "what do we share in commonalities that is more in alignment." It's a guarantee that we share commonalities within our energy- thought/ feeling field or coded within past experiences with everyone who are places upon our path. It would be impossible to come within one another's presence if there wasn't a high enough match in similarities, even if the similarities are magnetized by opposite. We live within a polar opposite universe and so to know something we have the ability to understand both sides. In order to experience one end we have the ability of experiencing both ends of the polarity, hence, love/hate, hopeful/ hopeless, joyful/ sad, hot/cold, tall/short, tight/ loose, kind, mean, etc etc etc, to know one we know the other, they are the same stream just different ends of then polarity spectrum, with different different degrees in between. One can only perceive something in another because it was at one point alive within you or, it's something you have opened yourself up to experience with enough momentum in thought, feeling and emotion to attract the experiences into physicality.. so any way about it, everyone in our paths is perfectly placed and every experience we signed up for, not always on a conscious level but on a subconscious level guaranteed. If we find ourselves in judgment we might want to reflect upon what the judgment is rooted in, and most the time we will locate a fear.. It's our nature as a human to want others to elevate/ expand or contact/ descend, however, forcing our ideals upon others when met with a resistance is speaking to the person "you need to change, because the way you are is not acceptable to me" and that leads to the person we are judging to feel rejected and chances are our forced approach towards changing them is denying that their souls evolution process is flawed and also creates a barrier of resistance Energy between the relationship. If we are more mindful of the people who are in our lives and meet each opportunity as a student/teacher, we have the capacity to expand out into our conscious awareness. If we find ourselves in a place where someone is sharing an idea and it doesn't resonate responding with a honoring statement will be met with the ability to have separate ideas, yet, still be comfortable to share space. Refraining a statement of "no, you are wrong" into something more like, "from my point of perception, it didn't resonate with me, however, I honor that it may resonates with you" or simply, "no thank you." And if asked for an understanding we can choose speak in a way that flows, by standing in our power and taking ownership of our choice. "I enjoy what I do, it feels right for me." "I choose to be in this space for now" "when you shared your idea with me, it didn't resonate." "I have tried this before and it didn't provide the results I was looking for, so I choose not to experience it again" etc "when you speak to me in a accusatory fashion, I shut down and do not feel honored or valued" "I am not open to talking about this right now, it doesn't feel comfortable to me." "I am not comfortable talking about this subject" "I am not comfortable with this choice" "can you help me to understand what it is that you are saying or would you like to share why you made this choice?" and "no, thank you." is always a choice you can choose un- apologetically, no need for an explanation. Carry on with a hmmm.. "interesting point of perception" "I made a decision and it's over" Carry on.. with what it is you decide to choose for you next. Making someone else feel bad is always going to restrict our relationships and ourselves. Being more mindful will always provide room for growth, it might not be instant but it certainly always creates a more expansive energy. 💜 kristy Lee
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Life is not happening to you it is happening through you and is unfolding perfectly for you at ALL times.
The are no accidents, no coincidences, and there is nothing that happens without a purpose, even if we cannot see it at the time the experience unfolds. It may take you months or sometimes even years to fully realize WHY a certain series of events happened. The key is to STOP acting as if these things have happened to you as a means to hurt you. Every experience that you go through is training you and hopefully teaching you a lesson, helping you to advance in your Spiritual Evolution. If you recently experienced a loss of a relationship, friendship, a job or a home, KNOW that it is because there is something to learn, inner strength to be found, courage being developed, a lesson within letting go and trusting the process of life, often times something new is developing, new doors are opening or someone new coming to you that is more aligned for your current development needs or expanding upon your cycle of growth. I can promise you that absolutely NOTHING happens without a reason behind it that holds deeper meaning. In reality the Truth is ALWAYS beneath the surface, often times lurking just below your conscious awareness, under the troubled waters, beneath the waves, there is clarity IF you can get past what your ego wants you to see and SEE what IS really there, learn to quiet your mind and look below the surface. If it's not quickly discovered learn to let go of the attachment to have to having answers revealed right now. Once you have experienced the state of “ananda” or Bliss of Being”, there is virtually nothing that can shake you out of your peace for long. You begin to have more of a “it was an experience” a "teacher" a "opportunity to learn, grow, develop, build strength, definition, spiritual muscles, gain insight and understanding" even a "oh well" kind of an attitude towards circumstances and situations that naturally occurs with being in a place of total acceptance. It is like the Apostle Paul said, “I have experienced lack and I have experienced plenty, and I have learned to be content either way.” This state of being enables you to move from being a victim to being okay no matter what comes to you in life, you become detached to the ebbs and flows that are inevitable in this world we call Earth. The trick is to not get stuck in "the figure it out" process when you are in a transition stage, take inventory and be brutally honest with yourself, acknowledge where you where aligned within your integrity and where you where not, if out of integrity, acknowledge that you missed the mark, course correct by shifting directions, if it doesn't make sense yet, it's okay, simply acknowledge that right now it doesn't make sense and any thing else you are holding onto from the experience and then choose to release, and return into the NOW, peace is always present here. **************************** This is a process that you can assist you with clearing the heaviness or density that often resides from experiencing difficult or painful experiences. It will assist with something you are currently going through and/or from a past experience that has been difficult to let go of and has left you with a heaviness that is weighing you down and sealing out your peace and joy. "Even though I do not know why this happened, I acknowledged it's for a greater purpose, and I give myself permission to be at peace without knowing the reason or meaning at this time, I am open to the reason being revealed in the future within the ah' ha' moments of life, I now choose to forgive myself, all others involved and forgive the experience itself and now choose to release, release, release all emotional attachments, all weight, All heaviness and density that this experience created, known and unknown, release, release, release, clear, clear, clear, and now choose peace and harmony, adjust, adjust, adjust." It may take repeating a few times of repeating this, but if you say this out-loud with a willingness to release what's holding you down, you will shift and you will recognize being into a more peaceful and harmonized state. (You may want to adjust the wording to more represent your natural expression. the format I shared will create instant shifts however using words you can say with conviction can be important for you too) I truly love each of you, love yourself, love others and choose to live more balanced and harmonized mind, body, spirit and soul. Love, Kristy Lee |
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AuthorKristy Lee is a Intuitive Energy Practicionor who is a strong channel. She writes as a way of giving her experiences a voice to bring forth Healing unto the nations. sharing her journey opens space for you to share yours. Archives
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