Everyone escapes some how.. stop judging yourself ...

💯 of humans have one or more ways that is used as an escape mechanism, it's just that some forms have been deemed as not acceptable by the collective and if you so happen to experience expressing yourself by utilizing one of the taboo methods you have the job of not only setting the behavior down but then owning the collective shadow within the shame stigma that centers around that particular choice...

You do not have to let it own any part of your identity.. it's not you.. you simply choose to experience something and in so doing it came with cause and effect outcome that might have created a bit of dissidence or chaos or maybe not so much.. maybe you skated....

Realize that you are fluid, life is fluid and within everyday of your life you express yourself in a multitude of different ways.. some you enjoyed and others not so much.. some might have become so robotic that you don't even stop to process what occurred anymore..

If you where to break your day down into segments and journal your thoughts, feelings, emotions, words and actions soon you would recognize your triggers, patterns, and ways of processing your life and over time you might just recognize who the voice in your head belongs to and if you pay particular attention you would see the correlation between cause and effect and would soon stop letting some of the silliness run you.. and would most likely gain enough awareness that you could easily course correct.. when needed...

Please choose to Let yourself off the hook.. if you expressed yourself in a way that deems shame, blame, hate, unforgivness, sadness etc, make friends with that you that expressed yourself in that manner .. and please stop owning the identity.. you are not anyone of the horrible things that might be behind a man made judgement or label.. you are far greater than any of that .. you are a perfect creation visiting Earth doing your best to figure out how to be human..

Tons of love,
KristyLee💖StarFire