You are precious. Your body is sacred and who you share it with should be a sacred choice.
Many of my clients are women. Some of which come to me at the ending of a relationship or with desires of meeting that special somebody to share their life with. I am all about having sacred unions and partnerships, but, I am more about building that sacred relationship with yourself first.
Here is the reason why; if you build a relationship with yourself first you will attract a higher alignment in the men that you attract. If you are clear on who you are you attract men that are clear about who they are. If you respect yourself the men you choose respect you at a higher level. If you have strong boundaries you do not de-self in a relationship and you stay true to your needs, wants and desires. If you are clear on your value system you don't waver within your values in a relationship and you will not feel like you have become a sacrificial lamb, instead you will feel honored, cherished, valued and adored.
A relationship is a a wonderful addition to your life but it isn't going to complete you if you enter into a union out of lack of feeling complete you will only feel more empty when your partner isn't able to sustain momentum with meetings your needs. If you are already feeling complete you do not require your partners opinion or treatment to make you feel whole. You have balance within and the relationship is a bonus.
Two consciously aware people are able to communicate openly, take accountability for their own feelings and communicate needs in a way that gives choices and options. Projections are rare, disappointments open room for inner growth and communication is done in a way of non-blame and without judgement. This kind of a relationship is open, fair, honoring, balanced harmonious and full of growth.
You are special and hold sacred value, you are a women with a sacred womb, your womb holds the most powerful energies and is the seat of your soul. You are worthy and deserving of greatness. Spend time with you. Explore yourself deeply. Get clear about your likes and desires. Understand your body and its messages. Cherish you, honor you, love you. You are WORTHY.
Everyday I meet with individuals who are awakening and starting to question their realities and the bigger meaning to life.
It's pretty common for statements such as...
"I have a feeling that I was born to experience more then graduation, collage, career, marriage, family, get old and die."
"I did what I was taught that I was suppose to do but I don't feel fulfilled."
"I know I am suppose to do something more, I just don't know what!"
"I feel like something is happening, I'm just not sure what, it's not good or bad, just something has changed"
"Who choose my path anyways?"
"I did xyz because I thought I was suppose to."
"I thought that when I met my husband, I had met my soulmate and believed I would be finally be happy."
"my wife filed for a divorce, took our children and home, I don't even know who I am anymore."
Do you plan your future from a deep inner knowing of already complete or is it to achieve goals that will make you complete?
When goals are set from a space of "when I achieve this" i.e.; degree, relationship, buy this house, vacation, have a child, get this job or promotion etc, it's built upon "I will finally have worth when",
This road map is leading towards building character of a false bravado where we give away our worth or value and place it upon the goals, action, doing,
It's creating in the energy of striving to be enough, achieve enough, to be good enough,
worthy enough, acceptance or liked
or loved by others.
as we begin to explore our belief and value systems we often find some of what we believe is based upon someone else's model.
The people who have influenced what direction we take for our lives may have their own path forged from cookie
cutter designs that may have been passed down for several
Indigenous tribes use education as a way of bringing out,
identifying and bringing forth the greatest essence of their children and assist with activities that help actualized and unify that which they are created and called to do.
As humanity evolved into being more convenient, we shifted away from educating our children based upon actualizimg Their Divine purpose and into designing hands and feet workers to meet the needs of developing and creating the physical world,
We bought into Programing that is crafted and designed to develop each generations learning geared towards future innovation and adopted a mind set established to disguise the motive within group consciousness
Within the programming A scale was carefully designed and placed into our belief systems and has shifted the way we perceive one another.
We adopted a new scale that determines by measuring the status, success and morality of individuals, groups and communities based on this conditioning.
As a result, as humanity continues to evolved in physical convienience a much greater deficit and disconnect has developed within the way we precieve one another, ourselves and our experiences.
A person is often taught to demonstrate societal based moral values and standards that we use to judge our life and others lives and is based upon appearing to be within this structure.
The illusion is defined by a life that appears to be successful.
No amount of success can hide the way we see ourselves.
If we believe we are inadequate or lacking we are in Inner conflict and suffering.
Inner Suffering is not always visible to the outside world even if Our outer world is mirroring back to us our own inner makings.
Consumers are reminded through every form of subliminal messages and direct advertisements of the need to be In search of a magic “pill” of what to purchase, wear, in order to have instant success means to feel prettier, desired, successful and on and on.
Marketing for big pharmaceutical companies often omit that most drugs mask or cover up
symptoms but doesn't provide a cure.
A giant house, fat wallet or the top position with the largest company can only work as a substitute for our deeper yearnings if we are inwardly hurting.
I am not implying that medicine is never required. I have used medicating myself and have several years of working wwithin the social service field and have seen first hand it provide immediate relief and assistance.
what I am stating is that it masks systems and does not cure the conditions of our mind, body, spirit and disconnection from ourself.
When our Mind, Body and Spirit are out of alignment it creates our vision to be clouded in the way we perceive ourselves, others and experience our existence.
When out of alignment it' is common to seek some form of escapism to synthetically fulfill the disconnect.
It could show up in our lives in ways such as overworking, overeating, sexual Addictions, failed relationships, perfectionism, excessive shopping, overspending, constant
need to go go go or do do do, and other mind altering substance.
We most likely all know someone or have personally experienced a life event such as divorce, losing a job, foreclosure, eviction, a serious accident, injury or illness, moving to a foreign land or environment and it felt like our world was shook apart and possibly even changed The quality of our life, living standard or activities that we once did and no longer do.
When the foundation of our identity is built upon a persona outside of ourselves and is rooted into what we do, have or upon someone else being a
part of our life, that persona is tested and at times shattered.
Often times we quickly seek to replace what ever we perceive we may have lost as a means to remedy.
Could painful experiences be an alarm that is sounding to awaken us to the realization that our mind, body, spirit are off balance, to examine the way we perceive ourselves, others, our
experiences and value systems?
Could the areas that are being removed from our life be because they are no longer of service to our higher potential? Could this be a call to awaken to a deeper meanings of life and to explore our beliefs and question our current paradigm?
Could it be an invitation to take off our masks and to step off the Hamster wheel of "having to do something to prove to ourselves our worth." and to show our self and others that we are something? A call to restore our inner balance and restore unity with Source/God/Universe?
When we look at a new born baby we are able to see the perfection of creation itself.
Creation that took two people coming together as one that ignited the process of creation itself. Creation that grew inside the Perfection of a women's womb.
It would be impossible to require the infant to do or be something other than just Be the precious miracle.
We may have lost sight and no longer see ourself as part of the miracle of life and feel disconnected from the vastness and perfection of creation itself. .
Being disconnected from our natural essence creates a longing or a sense of something is missing.
All of creation is created and brought forth into Creation by the powerful force of Creator we are designed as the helpers that actualized and express creation itself. .
By prayer and meditation we can ask for Divine order to assist in releasing what is no longer of service to us and restore the areas of our life that may be out of alignment with your truest and most divine life.
When I speak about prayer I do not speak in the religious terms. I speak in a terms of activating the prayer inside of you, unified with Source-Creator and to allow creators goodness be made manifest by directing the whole universe to assist.
Every snare ever set up to trick man holds NO power. All that is true is Waiting to be revealed.
You are already everything good, glorious and great. It's not about getting, doing or have something more to finally be the perfection of Creator, it's about uncovering Creators perfection in you andreleasing all that is not true.
I challenge you to evaluate your morals and
beliefs and To explore what set your actions into motion to walk your current path.
If if you are occomplishimg goals and buildings dreams by someone else's design, or are at a space of stagnation there is a good chance your being called to discover your greater purpose.
Humanity is Awakening and consciousness is shifting.
We are all being called to live our destined life and to actualize our gifts to the world.
Seek and let the goodness Of Creator and all of its glory be revealed in you. Everything you have experienced to this point in your life will become the pearls of great price in your life and are all part of a much grander picture and plan.
Our physical bodies, when viewed under a high powered microscope, are not solid at all. The body is a series of vibrations. Molecules, atoms, protons, etc. vibrating at a certain rate of speed. It is our physical mind that gives us the picture and the feeling of it all being a solid mass of something. The rate of speed or intensity of this vibration varies, it is not the same all the way thru the body.
The closer your physical body is to the earth (feet, legs, groin) the slower and heavier the vibration rate. As you start to move up the body, the rate of vibration picks up speed, or gets quicker. The quicker the vibration of any part of your physical body, the closer the connection is to your soul energy.
The soul energy has an intensely high vibration rate. It moves so quickly that we have yet to invent the microscope that can see it clearly (but this microscope will soon be invented). This is one of the major reasons why so many people have such a hard time with doing meditation. You are trying to enter the highest vibration (rate of speed) within yourself... most people get frustrated and quit before they ever realize the wonder of meditation. We need to be starting from the other end... the slower, more familiar energy within ourselves!!
When we are in total health, there is a harmony taking place from head to tippy toe. Our energy fields are vibrating perfectly and in co-operation with each level within us. When we start to get out of harmony within ourselves, that energy becomes disrupted. The rate of speed slows down even more. The longer we ignore the vibrational change (and our medical fields don't even look at this aspect, so it has to go ignored until you find someone who understands this part of life) that is when illness and disease sets in.
In the midst of the blood, bones, muscles and physical make-up that we can see in the body are what I will refer to as energy streams. These energy streams are in addition to that vibration I just talked about. I refer to this energy stream as your inner ocean, which has an ebb and flow all of its own.
This information is going to conflict with what some of you may have learned or studied, please be open to it. It makes the body simple and easy to understand.
The lowest chakra or energy center (the root or base chakra) starts at the coccyx (tail bone). There are three channels in which if flows up thru us to intersect at the tailbone... sort of like gas lines (trying here to give you a visual) that are in the center of your body. I see the base chakra like a 3 prong stream, 2 of the prongs are running thru each of your legs and then one right out the center of you from the groin. There are distinct channels in which this energy flows... the groin area being larger around than the ones in the legs, all with its own purpose.
The energy runs up from the ground thru your legs, entering at the soles of your feet and your grown then meets the sacral chakra at the tail bone. I am not going over chakra's here, just trying to help you understand how these channels work together and how important this energy flow is to your well being (body, mind and soul).
The earth energy merges with your spine at the tail bone. In the center of your spine runs a stream of energy, this is the flow of your inner ocean, or the current. The center stream in your spine is where most of your chakra's or energy centers intersect and share information. This stream from the earth flows upwards gathering all the incoming and outgoing information from your energy centers, pulling itself up thru your neck and crashes over your brain like the ocean crashes over the sand on the beach.
As this upward flow of energy crashes over your brain, nurturing all your electrical fields within the brain, also bringing you vision of your Self to the inner eye (brow chakra) the spiritual energy comes in thru the top of your head, mixing with this crashing wave, enhancing it. As the spiritual energy mixed with the earth energy runs back down your spine, as the ocean retreats back from the sand to its source, so do you, it takes all of the stress and worries of the day with it and releases it back into mother earth so she can transmute your stress and worries into positive energy (when all your centers are open).
But over time, we have become human pack rats. We no longer allow our flow to do its job, instead we store our stress and worries in the body. I personally stored mine in my gallbladder. When I had to have emergency surgery to remove my diseased gallbladder, I shifted my storage house to my liver, which developed filtration dissidence, through sound healing and Qigong I have had both my gallbladder grow back and my liver return to perfect health. , .
When we are in such a state of disrupted energy flow, it affects our minds. We get depressed, loose vital energy and become tired and drained. We no longer sleep as needed and may even become sleep deprived. When we can no longer feel our vital life force flowing thru us, we contemplate suicide or do things that are so reckless as to cause us harm.
When we really ignore our bodies warning signals, the energy flow starts to eat at its self, looking for the nourishment we are no longer giving it (our love). Cancer sets in where we are in our highest dysfunction within ourselves... within our energy flows.
What facilitates death, or maybe better stated, creates the energy for our bodies to start breaking down and die? It is our increased level in the energy of fear. Our bodies were never designed for states of prolonged fear. Lets get clear on what fear really is - it is every negative state of being and thinking. Fears that you are not good enough, not pretty enough, and fears that something bad will happen, or worry you won't get that next bill paid, or that a spouse is cheating. The fears are so long and so incredibly ingrained in how we approach life, it is no wonder our life span is a mere 70 -80 years when this incredible body was designed to live for hundreds and hundreds of years!
Lets talk about two very important aspects of our life, of our working physical body that both connect to The Aging Process!!
Scientifically the medulla oblongata functions primarily as a relay station for the crossing of motor tracts between the spinal cord and the brain. It also contains the respiratory, vasomotor and cardiac centers, as well as many mechanisms for controlling reflex activities such as coughing, gagging, swallowing and vomiting.
However; Scientists are becoming more aware that the human body can and does absorb energy; also, it is operated by a form of solar energy or electricity. The main input center is located at the Medulla Oblongata in the brain stem. This area of the body is called the Mouth of God by the ancient Masters of Life. The life energy was called the Word, due to its vibratory rate, which is audible. The Medulla Oblongata is so sensitive a pin prick would cause instant death, to tickle it would cause paralysis. Any other organ can be operated upon except the Medulla Oblongata.
Scientists are becoming convinced that this center is the focal point of life directly within our organism that traps light like a plant and converts it into energy through photosynthesis. This is the real Tree of Life in the Garden of Cosmic Consciousness.
The Medulla Oblongata also has a direct link to the Pineal Glad also known as The Master Gland.
So here you have two direct links to LIGHT within the body.
Now let me give you what I have come to know about these two incredible parts of our body!! For me, this is the most exciting thing I have learned yet!! Mostly because once we lighten everything up in these two centers, we drastically slow the aging process and severally put off the death result.
Metaphysically speaking, lets start with the Medulla Oblongata located in the throat chakra! The one thing I have found in the many years of doing energy work, the majority of people have a very blocked throat chakra. The denseness of dark (not illuminated) energy presses upon the medulla oblongata which creates (in partnership with the heart chakra) heart disease, lung disease and so on.
Now remember, the slightest vibration effects the medulla oblongata's working order. Light energy is a truly light vibration, where as the lack of light (which is where fear comes in, fear is dense, dark, unknowing, untrusting) is heavy. So if you spend your time in fear, and your Self expression is restricted due to fear you are sending a signal to the pineal gland that reduces the production of melatonin (the regulation of light within the body).
Imagine what happens when you keep things you want to say.... in. They build up (I have seen this energetic issue in way to many people) or the opposite, when we spew out venom with our words, imagine the harsh vibration that is taking place within our Medulla Oblongata (and lets not forget that very important hormone releasing gland the thyroid).
It is the severe dysfunction of our Self (please, higher self here, not the human minded self) expression that causes us to age and eventually die!! Imagine that!! Imagine if we healed it, put it into a balance of light.... we would slow down the aging processes by centuries, yes I said that correctly CENTURIES!! That means we could put off the act of dying for close to a millennium!! Hard to currently imagine I know, but true non the less!!
Every single illness, disease, or dysfunction can be restored back to absolute health. I don't care if cancer ate half of your liver away... it will re-grow itself if you change what is needed in you. If you lost bone mass, it will regenerate itself if you take charge of your life, spiritually, physically, and mentally!
However, if you believe what I say is impossible, then for you, it will be. Your beliefs create the reality that you now exist within. You do not have to believe me, not ever, and keep what you have created, and more will be coming to you. Gods law cannot be broken ever!
I also want to touch on something so important here, as we are talking about the physical body. I (and others like me) can reset your entire flow of energy... make it whole again, but if you do nothing to change what caused the flow to change, it will revert back again to disruption.
You must be a willing partner in your well being. If you are not willing to work on yourself, to understand yourself and make changes, then your physical body can only reflect your true state of being and that would be dysfunction. No aspect of your life... NONE is someone else's fault. Someone or something may have been a catalyst to bring something so dynamic to your awareness but often times, we simply just get mad, and anger will eat you up quicker than any other emotion.
We can only be responsible for ourselves, change ourselves, grow our life's ourselves. We change for the better... life around us follows the same direction. This too is Source/God/Creator laws.
I will close for now. Much love and many blessings ..
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Kristy Lee is a Intuitive Energy Practicionor who is a strong channel. She writes as a way of giving her experiences a voice to bring forth Healing unto the nations. sharing her journey opens space for you to share yours.
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